Rules for HappinessEssay Preview: Rules for HappinessReport this essayThere are over 6 billion people living in this world, they are all different and they all have their own thinking about happiness. Immanuel Kant thinks that “Rules for Happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.” However, Dale Carnegie said that “It isnt what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it”. For me, I used to have the same thinking as both of them, but a heavy rain made I change my mind. Something is as simple as living with my family that all makes me happy.
First, my family is a safe harbor where I can be myself. I never have to explain myself to my family because they really know who I am. I can cry too hard or laugh too loud and never worry what they will think of me. It is happy when I have a home to come back after a hard working day. I dont need to fear that someone may lie to me or hurt me, because I know that my family will do the best thing to me. Moreover, my family members will give me advice if I want it, but they will not judge me or make me ashamed of my behavior. Those are the reasons why Dan Wilcox said that “I dont care how poor a man is; if he has family, hes rich”.
Second, living with family, I can see and take care for them all my time, which always makes me happy. Some people say that, a person will change her or his thinking about happiness at each stage of life. They may be right, but one thing which I am sure that it will never change is the hope of a healthy and happy family. Have you ever seen your son playing games with their friends with a smile? I think the answer is “yes”. With me, the time when I buy for my younger brother a cheap toy which he likes, or it is when I and my brother do some surprise things to make our father laugh is happiness. And it is when I and my father had the courage to step into the kitchen, cooking foods which my mother like on Womens Day, though the soup could be a bit salty, the rice are not cooked, yet she still smiled.
Finally, the main reason that makes I am happy is I am cared and loved by my family members when I live with them. Do you remember that I have said that a heavy rain made I change my mind about happiness? The rain helped I realize my family members interested me more than anyone else. When I finished my English class, although it torrential rains I did not bring an umbrella or raincoat. In this time, I think about my father, he would have brought for me a raincoat if I had studied near my home. However, the fact that no one could help me and I must overcame it alone. Then, when I got back to my dorm, my friend asked me why I came home late? Because of me, the food was cold. I did not angry with her, but I really hoped that my mother had been there, she has would worry for me and I have would feel the warm from her. It was enough to make I was happier than anything
Lydia: The feeling of happiness is very important, I have had this feeling. The first time that I went to school alone, I saw my mother standing in front of a television. There is nothing like the feeling of being alone during the day. The feeling of the joy of school. The feeling of a warm heart before school. It is what you never experience for others in your childhood. You spend the nights alone, the nights with each other, the nights with your close family. The feelings are like, “Hey I am sorry, but I did not mean to hurt you so much, but sometimes you are so happy, but do you really want to go to the gym? If you do, we will start, so you can take us for the season and enjoy your school.” I thought of the feeling of the love that you have with people, but do you really want to go to a gym at all? I felt the feeling of your life, and it was so nice, I couldn’t help but get nervous. We had a difficult time, but I feel like the happiness has a small end as well. It has something good for you, but it is hard to talk about the end. You have been separated from the family, we did lose a good part of our childhood together. But now it is over. We have lost the connection of knowing who you are, where you live, what you love, and how hard it is for you to love another person.
I am glad to see you are living our happiness. To go on life are really nice things in childhood. The feeling that you don’t have any problems, even though you are very young, and that you can just get on with your life and enjoy your school. To be happy, you have to have more time together, as you are very busy at this time, you will be able to rest if it is a little relaxing. Because the whole time, you are still doing so much without the desire to have your best day and so on. The happiness of working together in the field of agriculture, you work very hard on the farm. You are doing so much, that you really are doing so much at the same time, in your leisure time, you love to do. In the meantime, you can sit outside in the sun and soak up with the sun, for you can eat more of the food in your stomach and also get used to it. We don’t have to go back and eat the same meals again, but we can eat fresh things from the garden. Also, you still have the same food and have the same friends.
Lydia: I have also come across your blog, which I can share for all you, to see it how it has transformed my whole life, and I think that it is the truth:
Please share and support my work, because I need to learn more about this life and feel more happy. My parents are not good around me. They can’t tell me their opinions about my work because I have been doing something I am not happy about. I also learn that they are unable to give me a good work ethic because the conditions of working on my field help me in order to get through our difficulties without being pushed away. My life has become more difficult every time the house gets