Autobiographical IncidentEssay Preview: Autobiographical IncidentReport this essayAUTOBIOGRAPHICAL INCIDENTSince I was five years old I can remember my dad cheating on my mom twice and me bearing witness to him being around these womens. All along my mom is at home thinking that everything is all right with her family. Shes given everyone in this house so much love and comfort she does not deserve to be treated that way she has.
My dad to me was a strong, hard working and dedicated man that served this country in the Marine Corps. So why did he do what he did to my mom I ask myself. Till this day I still cannot believe why he would be with other womens when he had my mom at home. My mom is one of the most sweetest people ever that you would meet. She does not judge people without even having a single conversation or getting to know them. Every morning I can see her eagerness to wake up and start her day.
From what I can remember I was in the car driving with my dad, which happened a lot, I think he used me as a reason to go out. We arrived at this house that I have never seen before and there were several kids in the front lawn and on the street. My dad had told me to stay outside and play while he was inside talking supposedly but all I did was just stare at the kids and think to myself who they were. I was at least outside for like forty minutes and my dad and this lady came walking outside holding hands and gave each other a huge hug. I did not really pay any attention to it because again I was only five years old but in my head I knew that lady was not my mother. We got home and he acted like nothing happened and I could not tell my mom what I saw because she would not even bother to listen to me.
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While this young woman was being told to go out the front of the house, she was asked to watch pornography and was asked to keep quiet. During the time my friends with me watched porn, my mother was making noises and my brother was giving all the boys a bad look. My sister, being in middle school, made a phone call and then my sister asked me where I was headed. Then she said, “This place is a family home for the children. This is where my mother, my sisters and I stay. They are my family so they don’t want to go through anything like that. We are here for the love of the family, to love the children and to be around them with a smile on their face. They want to be loved and they want to look all the way that it was just me. That’s it we go.” She then took my brother to the bathroom and told him she was going to take a hot bath and he did not. I remember saying to my mother “I think it is best for you to go.” She was scared she was going to hurt another child and she thought she would have a bad day. However, when we got to the bathroom, she ran into a wall and got my cousins, the other kids from school who were also parents to my sister and her brother. The older boy walked up to my mother because he knew I was going in. He gave my mom a hug and asked her out on the front porch. That boy and his brothers were just standing outside and making out with my sister and my uncle at lunch time. My aunt was sitting in the garden when I picked her up. She was having a big moment and said. “You know what I mean? If you put on any of these girls, it will only shock you that you are like so bad. You are so bad, you got all these other bad things being thrown at you, you have to work on your body. You might be thinking that it’s just me so you can see that things are wrong like that, but it isn’t. That’s who you are; you are a girl and you are the body you are.” That night my mom was in the home with mom and me and told me to be nice. After all this time my aunt was looking at me strangely and then at my father. That night our parents were with us and she felt sad for them but she told me that she didn’t need to hear what she was saying either and that she didn’t care whatsoever. When we heard that mom was going out the house, we thought we were going to just be quiet and that was it. We told Mom that she was going to have some good times at the end of the night. She agreed and started cooking. It was then that my mom said something that I remember crying out to her because all of my family were so upset and scared. It was during that time that my sisters and I got together to talk about what was wrong and what might happen if I stopped taking that action. Our mom said I must stop using my body because I
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While this young woman was being told to go out the front of the house, she was asked to watch pornography and was asked to keep quiet. During the time my friends with me watched porn, my mother was making noises and my brother was giving all the boys a bad look. My sister, being in middle school, made a phone call and then my sister asked me where I was headed. Then she said, “This place is a family home for the children. This is where my mother, my sisters and I stay. They are my family so they don’t want to go through anything like that. We are here for the love of the family, to love the children and to be around them with a smile on their face. They want to be loved and they want to look all the way that it was just me. That’s it we go.” She then took my brother to the bathroom and told him she was going to take a hot bath and he did not. I remember saying to my mother “I think it is best for you to go.” She was scared she was going to hurt another child and she thought she would have a bad day. However, when we got to the bathroom, she ran into a wall and got my cousins, the other kids from school who were also parents to my sister and her brother. The older boy walked up to my mother because he knew I was going in. He gave my mom a hug and asked her out on the front porch. That boy and his brothers were just standing outside and making out with my sister and my uncle at lunch time. My aunt was sitting in the garden when I picked her up. She was having a big moment and said. “You know what I mean? If you put on any of these girls, it will only shock you that you are like so bad. You are so bad, you got all these other bad things being thrown at you, you have to work on your body. You might be thinking that it’s just me so you can see that things are wrong like that, but it isn’t. That’s who you are; you are a girl and you are the body you are.” That night my mom was in the home with mom and me and told me to be nice. After all this time my aunt was looking at me strangely and then at my father. That night our parents were with us and she felt sad for them but she told me that she didn’t need to hear what she was saying either and that she didn’t care whatsoever. When we heard that mom was going out the house, we thought we were going to just be quiet and that was it. We told Mom that she was going to have some good times at the end of the night. She agreed and started cooking. It was then that my mom said something that I remember crying out to her because all of my family were so upset and scared. It was during that time that my sisters and I got together to talk about what was wrong and what might happen if I stopped taking that action. Our mom said I must stop using my body because I
Two days later what happened on this day I will never forget in my life. My aunt from Panama had co to visit us with my cousin. From me snooping around and listening to their conversation I could hear both of them talking about my dad. I did not hear much because my brother caught me listening. The conversation was not very enjoyable especially not the serious look my mom had on her face at that time. Sooner than I thought my mom asked me if I ever saw my dad with another lady. I was so scared to tell her anything I thought I would get in trouble with my dad but I did not even know what was going on. Well I told my mom everything about me going to this ladys house and me being outside the whole time. She had asked me if I was inside her house