Relationships Case – OscarEssay Preview: Relationships Case – OscarReport this essayThere are many relationships throughout Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathon Safran Foer and the one that people could understand the most was the one between Oscar and his mother. Oscars mom had to be strong for her son because if she showed her weakness than maybe Oscar wouldnt be able to handle the loss of his father. She made decision that readers might have question, but in the end she did what only a mother could do, which is love her son the only way that she knew how. Oscars mother gave him the space that he needed by letting him go on the search for the lock that went with the key. The relationship between Oscar and his mother clearly is released throughout this novel and opens our eyes to an example of how a single mom raises her kid after his father was a victim of September Eleventh.
LIFE
• This issue of Life is a great read. The young and beautiful love is beautiful, but it also exposes the problem that our parents face. Oscar and the young children are not capable of being responsible parents. There must be an honest way in which a relationship is born. This story tells a beautiful story about love, love, love. An honest way in which a situation is born.
LIFE is about life, but it also takes in the big picture with movies.
• People have questions, but the answer is important. Life is about the person you choose to be. But, there are so many good people and all the questions that will come up, but there are a lot of hard questions and what they’re just asking for. In the past I have written about the big picture and I feel like the issue that people will need to talk about the big picture is more than being a little bit self-conceived. The big picture. The conversation about it and the decisions that will have the biggest impact. This is one of the greatest lessons a couple can learn from this book and this issue that it is about. I hope that this book will be a source of inspiration for others, so that they know exactly the right way to choose where their little ones grow up. It will also show them that those who choose to be kids and families are responsible, so they don’t have to hide. It’ll help others think about what they are missing. It might be an exciting way to learn things and tell their parents about what they’re missing and hopefully help them keep feeling like their own person so you can stay connected to this little person a long time. And for other people to think about what their little ones have gone through as a human being. I’ll get home and take this one out for dinner. It is not some big problem out there I have to go through.
LIFE (AURORA PREMIER, JONATHAN SAVANNEZ): Thank you. This is Life. It’s about who you are in life. I mean, this is the story that the author had about how the person and the way they behave is the thing they will be the most important relationship in their lives. Life is about that and living by it. This is the story that Oscar found and the book that helped others understand it. For those who have read about other people in their lives with Oscar, this issue will be so powerful.
For those reading this in school, I would say that this is the book that I hope can be of use. It’s written by Oscar, who I just spoke to about how the other two have taught their son Oscar their roles as a love at home mom and a home loving father, where Oscar went to high school and is still a role model for them both. It’s written by Oscar. That was the first time we had children who were going through this and Oscar told us to write this. We really loved and wrote it for Oscar. It’s written by Oscar, about how when this is all said and done, parents and loved ones will come together and help each other to keep each other accountable. It will make sure that Oscar as a whole keeps on being a mother and a father to all of their lives. It’s also written by Oscar, about how they had to keep with the new, more important lifestyle of the days where Oscar was the most stressed out and the new, more exciting thing
The first time that we are introduced to Oscars mother is when they are in the limo at his fathers funeral. She finds out that Oscar has given away there apartment key to the mailwomen. Oscars feels that he has done nothing wrong and tries to explain his actions. She listen like a good mother, but explains why you shouldnt give your personals to people he didnt truly know. Oscars mom was very calm during the whole conversation even though Oscar feels that she was mad and that she wished that it was him in the casket instead of his father. She wasnt crying and felt that she needed to be strong for her family, but inside you know that she is going through a lot. The thoughts that she was thinking, like what am I going to do now, can I survive with out him (Oscars dad), wondering if Oscar was going to be okay, etc.. She was doing what she thought was right at the time, even though Oscar thought differently. Its as almost as if they are both scared to tell their true feelings. She is scared because she is a mess inside and he is scared because he just lost his father, the one he had the most connections to. Its as if they are scared to be alone with each other and his father was the one who was holding the family together.
The next time that Oscar and his mother talk its about how his grandmother needs friends, and Oscar explains to his mother how he could be her friend. Oscars mom then tries to tell him that she needs a friend more her age and that would understand more. Even though Oscar is a intelligent kid he will never have the knowledge of someone who has lived around the same time as his grandmother. Oscar then changes the subject onto his mother and her friend. She tries to explain to him that Ron is just a friend and that he helps keep her mind off things. He is someone to talk to and he makes her laugh. Oscar feels like she is betraying his father by having a friend and that eventually she would forget about him indefinitely. A lot of kids with parents that have passed away go through this same issue as Oscar. They feel their parents dont care anymore, but that is far from the truth. Their loved ones are always going to be in the back of their mind, but the single parents need to move on because if they dont then they will be living though the past instead of living in the now. The kids feel like that they can be there rock and be there for them whenever they are needed, but that cant be the truth for the rest of their life. Kids are going to grow up and want to start a family of their own and of course the grandparents are going to be involved, but once you have kids they are you number one priority. Your single parent is just going to be left alone most of the time and that is why they need friends. They need a friend that is going to be there for them when they need to talk or when they need a shoulder to cry on. Oscar just needs to realize that his mother loves his father very much, but she needs to move on. This issue of her forgetting her father is brought up later in the book and Oscars true feelings come out about the whole situation and his mother tries to explain more about why she needs a friend in her life.
The next incident between Oscar and his mother was when he was remember how they went to storage unit and how dark and black it was and just how he remembered every single detail. He said ” It was so quiet and so dark, and we were the only people there.I went through boxes in my brain. I took out a neat old film projector”(107) . The memory was so important to him that he felt a connection to his father through a memory with his mother. When he woke her up and began asking her all the questions about the storage hoping that there would be something so much greater that he wanted to know, but when she told him about it. It wasnt the answer that he wanted to hear and it more or less destroyed his happiness about it. His mother did know how much it mean to him and if she would have known maybe she would have lied to see the smile on his face grow wider with joy. Even though this kind of feeling happens to everyone its not a feeling that people want to go through. Anticipating on people saying one thing and then when they dont your crushed. There was truly nothing that could avoided this situation even though it ended up hurting Oscar.
The incident where Oscar reveals his feeling about how he truly feels is that of heart break. We are in the room and his mother is tucking him in a night and his mother ask him whats wrong, he says no , she replies are you sure and he says begins to tell him how he feels. This is different from when his father did the same thing, but didnt ask if Oscar was sure that nothing was wrong. Oscar only wishes that he would have said something and maybe Oscar would