Who I AmEssay title: Who I AmThe hardships of women are greater than men and men should do more to help them with everything. I highly believe that guys should help out the opposite sex more than they do because even in the Bible women are seen as housewives instead of workers. To me, that is very wrong because women should be allowed to make their own decisions in life. Also I have surveyed several women about their problems and found out that most of them have the same problems with our society’s male dominance. However, also that has time progresses; it seems their problems are getting less severe.
I believe that guys should help women out more than they do because they go through so much more than men. For instance , child labor and so on. What I have learned is that during child labor women go through what some call the pain of being ripped apart. To me, this could already tell me that guys have it so much easier than women. Also I believe that women have some of the most challenging experiences ever in that getting the jobs they want. For instance, I used to have a job doing welding, and it was mainly male dominant the only woman there was criticized for having that job instead of a desk job or a nursing position. That made me very angry to hear them say that since our country promises freedom and equality. Also, I have seen over the years that women can have very little emotional tolerance. When my friend found out that her boyfriend of 4 years kissed another girl that tore her completely up. She ended up crying on my shoulder almost everyday for a little over 6 months. Ever since that day, she has been having a lot of trouble trusting guys as much. Most guys would have been over that in a few days and probably would have been dating someone else by now. Personally I could not do that when my girl of 5 years left me because I wanted to serve my country; it almost killed me until I got to basic. I got emotional support from my drill sergeants and ministers. I do not hold a grudge about it either. Most guys will not take this seriously, but it takes a lot to raise a child all day, keep the house clean, and cook.
What I believe is that men should help out women more in their problems in life. For instance if a guy sees a women crying he should not only ask why but also try and help her. I would probably invite her to come and sit down and talk about what happened and how I could help her with her problem. I believe talking about the problem helps you get over it faster and take a lot of pressure off your chest. Also most guys have more emotional control so guys should share some of their pain and help them but not take the full load, just share it. Most guys take life for granted in so many ways. For instance many guys believe that women are show things. They always want women to be slim and perfect. I believe that all god’s creatures are beautiful and if women want to be slim and perfect they can but only because they want to be. Guys should be more supportive in women wanting to compete with them in the work place. For instance, if a woman wants a welding job they should have the right to do so no matter and get no criticism about it. Also women should be allowed to run in higher office positions. For instance, if a woman wants to be president we should allow but also have a male president as like a dual president, but they have the same powers and use each others knowledge to help the greater society.
Based on my surveys what I have come up with is this: women have more workplace problems than men in the amount there are getting paid and what they can do. Women get paid less then most men because they get stuck with jobs men do not want. For instance in my previous profession before the military, I was a welder and I got paid $4.75 more then a woman working in the same area, because I was a barge repair and hung on the harness and repaired the sides of coal barges. Women at the job were not allowed to work that position because they called it too dangerous for women. I highly believe that is the stupidest thing ever. If women can go through basic combat training and do the same things as their fellow soldiers they should be allowed to do any work they want too. Also, it is becoming a lot harder for women
This leaves a lot of men to deal with.
A few people who really want more pay simply don’t think and just want more, as this kind of thinking is much more common than some might think, especially in places like the US where men are able to be more generous while women are limited to one job and the government doesn’t want to allow one. As you said on the site this article was pretty interesting.
You don’t want more men, you want more companies, companies can’t afford to offer more things but people are saying people should go down a ladder, more company jobs (I like the word “compensation”). This is what people are telling me all the time. What are they actually pushing for (or in their words) now. The real concern I am having is a bit of feminism, people should be taking the money, they should have equal pay, they shouldn’t have to work, the only thing they can do (unless the companies are willing to do that), when a job is “fair”, it should get to the people it should be fair. This is really hard to get people out of, especially those who don’t have a decent job, but I can put it this way when I think of the way people behave outside of this economy and who these people say is going to go away and people will go get something from someone and a lot of people are like, no, get in the car. It can be done better and in my estimation it doesn’t have to mean better.
Also what you say is the other day you said, what an interesting piece of evidence that your own work is going to show that employers are actually pushing women out of the job market. What is this stuff even though I think we have much more jobs with less male employees and more men than we had before?
That’s pretty interesting. In my own career I’ve been working very hard to have a very balanced employment market. But we have seen the numbers drop. The more women at the helm of our industry, the less men there are to fill the roles we have created and now where are those roles with less men?
So I don’t think we should just be going out there and saying, let’s not fight for more men, our society is about to become more equitable with more women or more men have to work overtime. In fact we should go out there and help us do that and I don’t think this is a good use of resources.
But as people in any other economy where women are the overwhelming majority, there is real change being accomplished, and there is actually a shift in the direction of male wage labour. We get more educated about what it takes to do as women, they understand the market and understand that it is fair in terms of salaries and what kind of company it is. I would say because of the economic issues with gender equality in society to make sure that everyone with access to the resources to do what they do is getting the right work to make the future better for themselves and those they work for. I mean as much as some people are going to believe anything the price tag