Christian Parenting
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Christian Parenting
Our world is a dangerous place, where stories of terrorism and child abductions dominate the news, and many young people try out premarital sex, alcohol and drugs. Its enough to frighten any parent. There are things you can do to protect your children and help them shine Gods light into the darkness around them.
Teach them to know and love Gods Word. Help them understand that the Bible contains absolute truth that applies to everyone, and that God wants them to use it as their guidebook for life. Read and discuss it together on a regular basis, making a specific commitment of time in your schedule. Use a translation thats easy for your children to understand. Point out how the verses you read are illustrated in your daily lives.
Help them develop relationships with other faithful young people. This will give them an invaluable network of encouragement, support, and accountability. Make sure they participate in an excellent youth group.
Pray for them and with them often. Share with them regularly how God has answered prayers, so they will start to notice His answers and expect Him to answer when they pray. Help them understand the reality of evil and the need to fight it through
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prayer and action as spiritual battles rage in their lives. Show them the extraordinary power of prayer.
Help them discover Gods love for them. Emphasize how much God loves them. Even the youngest children can grasp this concept. Tell them that Gods relationship with them is based on love, and that He longs for them to love Him back. Point out examples of gifts God has given them, for which you are thankful. As you read Bible stories and celebrate holidays like Christmas and Easter, focus on how God has put His love into action.
Help them discover Gods plans for their lives. Encourage your children that God has their best interests at heart, and wants to accomplish specific purposes in their lives. Affirm the unique ways God has created them. Point out the talents He has given them, and help them think and pray about how He might want them to use those talents. Tell them that God has great plans for their lives that He will reveal if they seek Him. Support their dreams.
Encourage them to become increasingly independent of you, but dependent on God. Equip them to make their own righteous choices by making it clear what God expects of them, why its important
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to God, and how their obedience will benefit them. Give them opportunities to make their own moral decisions in age-appropriate ways, and then deal with the consequences. Show them that you trust them.
Help them think critically. Expose them to books, magazines, music, movies, television shows, plays, and other parts of our secular culture and discuss the content together. Show them how to recognize glimpses of biblical truth in secular material, and how to discern lies when they are presented. But keep them away from material that is so objectionable that they cannot yet properly absorb and process it. As you discuss a particular cultural offering, ask them questions about what they like or dont like, and why.
Remind them that they will experience trouble in life, but that God will always be with them. Dont let unrealistic expectations of a trouble-free life erode their faith. Help them understand that we live in a fallen world full of sin, and that God has said everyone can expect trouble in this life. But encourage them that God will walk with them through any situation, and give them the strength and peace they need to face it.
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Teach them that God is watching how they treat other people. Emphasize that a person cant truly love God if he or she doesnt also love other people. Ask them to consider how they would feel if someone else treated them the way theyre considering treating another person.
Help them understand that sin is at the root of all that hurts them. When someone hurts them or when circumstances go awry, help them connect their hurt to the sin at its source so theyll be motivated to avoid sin with their own actions. Point out hypocrisy so theyll be able to distinguish it from integrity.
Encourage regular confession times. Help them go to God on a regular basis to confess their sins, repent, seek His forgiveness, and receive His grace to do better in the future. Encourage them to regularly renew their relationship with God in this way to maintain their intimacy with Him.
Discipline is one of the clearest and most frequent expressions of love between parents and their children. Nevertheless, it is no easy task for parents to correct their loved ones. It is necessary, however, that they do so from their childs earliest years. Two extremes in discipline should be avoided. Weak parents who are afraid to correct their children are secretly
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ridiculed by them. These children grow up, minus character formation and proper guidance, and become as weak willed as their parents. The other extreme, the dictator-type parents, are equally incapable