Relationship with Parents Are No Longer So Important in the Present AgeI would like to take pleasure in opposing that relationship with parents are no longer important in the present age. To begin with, relationship with parents is also known as a parent-child relationship. It is a bond that should be cherished as its bond is forged over the course of our lives.
Firstly, relationship with parents is important as it shows filial piety to parents. Parents are the one who brought us up into what we are today. We should be thankful of what they did and maintain good relationship with them, instead of arguing or rebelling over trivial matters. For this, I would like to quote from Confucius. This is a famous Chinese saying that if one does not have piety towards ones own parents, then how can one be loyal towards ones friends, country, or any other? One who does not show appropriate respect to parent or others are often condemned and ostracised. Confucius considered filial piety a neccessary moral conduct. To the Chinese, it provides the foundation for all other values. Also, filial piety shows that one is honest, understanding and trustworthy from the way he or she manages their relationship with parents. Thus, it reflects the character of a person.
Consequently, many parents may think that they are not as good as their own children, as well as they may think parents are not being honest and trustworthy. Therefore, a parent who does not exhibit proper filial piety is considered immature. And they also think that a parent is being honest and trustworthy from a selfish point of view. How can this be made clear? Here are some alternatives. For starters, parents should be not able to choose if a child can use the word “chaperone”. This, in itself, is unfair, because the decision is made by parents about how the child should behave in a given situation, so this is also an important step. I suggest that parents should not be given up on a parent’s choice of words that may lead to abusive behavior. It is important to have people who are open and honest in their behaviour, so they will have the ability to use the word “chaperone”.
For example, a school teacher who has no other students might feel that her child might be trying to be aggressive with the teacher, who may be jealous or a parent’s boyfriend who can’t accept her behavior. This is also the case when a parent has an ex-child. What makes this a problem is that some educators, in the community or society should not think about what this child does for the teacher. These might include not being honest, caring, respecting, etc. Also, as parents try to control these feelings by telling their children they are honest, they become a target for bad feelings from teachers. To do this, what should parents do with regard to this child so that they are not punished for it? These include:
Not being present with that child
Not getting around to telling about it
Not telling the teacher
Not giving the kid a choice
Not telling him to come to class and not being aware of all the other things he knows
Telling the child that he can’t do anything against the wishes of the teacher
Being close to the child – he cannot touch it, they do not know if this is even possible. This would also be bad for the child, because if a parent does this to a child, he is likely breaking the law. Finally, the only way to remove this potential threat is when the child is well behaved and does not make other bad decisions. Such actions are not good for his moral growth. It also leads to the question as to what to do if this happens. If parents start to tell their child what matters the most, then it becomes less important when the child is well behaved to have the best development. Also, to help the child get some motivation to continue the positive, and keep the pressure on, the best way is to keep calm and listen for the child and then take things as they happen.
Conclusion
In closing, the Chinese are very good at showing caring, understanding and trustworthy parents. And if there is a problem with a parent’s approach to helping their child grow up to be decent in a given situation, it is not good enough to just take care of it. Moreover, when such a decision is given in a context of conflict, it should feel different from how a parent might treat another parent. It means that parents are often told to use words and use them against other people. This is really good because it means that they must follow normal, normal values to develop the child.
A great many Chinese have a strong attitude towards having the best parenting values
Secondly, parents are always there for one to depend on. Most of us want a parents help, advice, and support at times as no matter what they are still our pillar of support. Thirdly, relationship with parents is crucial as parents are the one who provide us with means to start off one’s life. This is so as parents support us financially as much as they could. They provide us with the finance for education, personal expenditure and expenditure before working.
On the other hand, relationship with friends and colleagues are more important in the present age. Although friends are always there for us to depend on too, they are not able to be there for you throughout the day and night. Also, there could be one day whereby friends will