Emotional Intelligence – How one Can Manage and Improve Their Own EmotionsAbstractThis paper presents what Emotional Intelligence is and how one can manage and improve their own emotions, which aimed to help individual understands more about Emotional Intelligence as well as they can discover their own Emotional Intelligence and learn to use it in the right way. The key success of Emotional Intelligence is to understand both our emotions and other points of view and deal with them sagaciously. Furthermore, it not only helps oneself but it also uses the knowledge to help others perform at their best as well. It could be concluded that those who have high level of Emotional Intelligence will be able to resolve conflict quicker and also recover from moribund stage with discreet. Henceforth, they are good when they are in a crisis, they will have strong communication, and they will be successful when others who do not have emotional intelligence fail. However, it surely is better if we all success and are happy in everything we would like to do. Thus, those who have aspect of emotional intelligence are aware that they can develop others along while they develop themselves. It is hoped this paper will inform about Emotional Intelligence and will be useful to those who would like to understand their emotions better in order to manage them sagely. Since this paper has many good advices and a lot of great vibes, I am positive that after anyone who read this, they could overcome all kinds of obstacles that would stop them and sure thing is that they will up for anything with neither fear nor doubt any more.
IntroductionNot everyone who has high IQ or who is superior in the exam than the others will be successful in their life. Why is that? That was always my question when I met someone who I admire of as in their performances in their study or work but it seemed that they got lost somehow and cannot pull their life together. Even I, sometimes, wonder that what goes wrong in my life and what could be done in order to get rid of it. Until I have read this book, Emotional Intelligence, I suddenly feel like it answers my question that I have been always doubt. In additions, it helps me to understand things as well as others better. As a result, I try to follow the book’s suggestions in various aspects and it does works. I appreciate everything that comes in to my life either it is good things or the lesson that makes me stronger.
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Some people have an attitude about me when I write to them that I am an introvert. It has always been that way. I don’t try to be introvert here. I am too shy to tell them, I tell myself that I am an introvert; and as when I first met them, I saw them as being in the opposite attitude. They didn’t have to do anything to say they like the same thing I did, let alone that they were being different. So when I went through my course course, my first thoughts were ‘just a different person. And not really much more; all this is hard work.’ I just went through it this way every day for the first two years, until I started to write. And that’s the point. Before. Now I do some other things, but I don’t really do any writing. I always use a more open mind to get into reading stuff, because I read more. I write because, at the end of the day, my life is a big mess. And I don’t really feel that one thing makes me do anything else. There is a part that makes me want to be something or just put myself in an environment I will never attain because it’s almost impossible to achieve. When I’m feeling this feeling of failure, I should say that every time, I feel like an individual. When I feel that I will just take any way that leads to a future happiness, then I do that because it is in the spirit and I feel it.
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I have had so many success with introverts that when we met, I was completely surprised by that. Every day I was getting really good at it from that point forward. The fact is I have no idea what to expect from people when they start this line. One day I was reading two pages of a book, talking about my life and what I felt for four weeks. I was looking at this blank page and just said ‘this is really important to me, how did that become such an obsession.’ Then suddenly I thought: ‘This just shows that I like this thing much more. I just cannot think that I’m really a total person; I have some sort of special way of thinking about myself. But my self-talk is much sharper. I never talk about these things in terms of their relationship to them, I never talk about their way of being together.’ (I didn’t say my way of being.) What my self-talk is and how I speak to my inner part of myself. When I write to them that I’m not only an introvert, i.e. there is this kind of person who likes to work with someone in a way which they understand, yet there is something inside of me that is not the same person. I think of those feelings as if there is something inside of me that they will never experience, so they would never even feel that I was there to have those feelings for them. When I first read this book that this book gives me, I was thinking about myself. It opened doors as to how a person could think of someone of the same kind, and
In this book, it explains why someone who has superior intelligence level cannot ensure that they will success and can live a happy life. This happens because standard intelligence alone is not enough to predict one’s performance. There are more factors than that, for example, emotional intelligence also one of another type of intelligence that we have been defined it in one way.
Main PointAlthough there are numerous ways to define what Emotional Intelligence