Courage To Me
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Courage is one of those things that everyone tries to understand, but that nobody really gets. When most people talk about courage, what they really mean is “fearlessness.” The two concepts couldnt be more different.
Children are taught that having courage means being fearless. Courage is “ignoring your fear and standing up to danger, no matter how scared you are.” In other words, kids are taught to be Tigger. Brave kids arent afraid of anything, and kids who show fear are weak. Sound familiar?
When I was depressed, I was terrified of a lot of things, especially anything to do with other people. I hated going to parties where I didnt know anyone; and dont even talk to me about public speaking.
I responded to this fear by doing what I had been taught. I ignored it. I figured that I was being irrational and that I had to get over my fears, just like everyone else did. But it didnt work. The more I tried to control my fears, the more they seemed to control me. I wasnt brave at all; I was a weakling, a coward.
It doesnt have to be this way. I found someone who taught me how to find real courage. Someone who I never suspected of being brave. I found Winnie the Pooh.
“It is hard to be brave, when youre only a Very Small Animal.”
– Piglet
Now, Winnie the Pooh isnt anyones idea of a hero. Hes scared of everything! He is the exact opposite of the types of heroes we are taught to look up to as kids. But he holds the true secret of courage. Here it is:
Being scared is ok, because we are all Very Small Animals.
Doesnt sound like much, does it? But thats the secret of courage. Heres what I mean:
There is no such thing as a fearless person. It is all a big lie. There is not a person on this planet who isnt afraid of something. Truly brave people, like firemen who rush into burning buildings to rescue people, are scared to death when they face their fears. But yet they go ahead and do the things that most frighten them. That is because they understand and accept their fear. This is true courage.
So how does Winnie the Pooh show true courage? He shows it by being strong and accepting his fears. Then, he shares his fears, as silly as they may be, with other people. He asks for help.
Thats all. It seems too simple, doesnt it? But it works.
“You find sometimes that a Thing which seemed very Thingish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.”
-Winnie the Pooh
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